“I’m ready to buy, but I can’t find the right house and don’t want to settle for a house I don’t love. Should I just wait?”

This is a common buyer frustration as we continue to struggle with low inventory in the area, and unfortunately the solution to the problem is not an easy fix. No one wants to compromise on finding their ‘dream” home, but by taking the time to really think through your home goals, separate your needs from your wants, and evaluate your long-term budget, you can mitigate a lot of the stress of your home search so that the process becomes exciting and fun again. 

When inventory went down in late 2022, many buyers who found their options had become limited decided to take a break and either save money to increase their budget or wait until more homes became available and interest rates go down. Many of those buyers are still waiting – inventory hasn’t picked up significantly, and because home prices continue to rise, the benefit of any extra money they saved is often negated.  It doesn’t appear that interest rates are going drop enough in the near future to incentivize waiting when you consider the continued market appreciation, so the reality is the best time to purchase is now. 

That being said, in order to buy now, you need to clearly understand what you can afford and separate that from your “dream home” ideal.  We’ve been trained to compare everything we see with designed Instagram homes that don’t reflect how the public really lives – so it can be disappointing to walk into a listing and not see the picture you had in your head. I like to remind buyers that houses are not soulmates – there are many homes out there that will work wonderfully for you, and none of them will be perfect. The homes you currently have to choose from may seem like compromises, but they are actually the best possible options available to you at this stage in your life. Remember that most buyers have to buy and sell multiple times in order to step up to their forever home. 

Lastly, if you don’t look, you won’t find your home! It’s not uncommon for buyers to skip looking at a potential home because it happens to be the only house on the market that weekend and it doesn’t seem worth it take time out to just see one house. Everyone wants the process to be like an episode of HGTV where you have ten options that are all amazing and you spend hours discussing which one is best. However, house hunting is a process, and you need to make sure that you commit to seeing everything out there so that you have the best possible market knowledge available to you when making a decision. While you may ultimately decide that it is worth it to increase your budget to get a home with fewer compromises, you may also be surprised to find that you learn to see the potential in the homes available and end up with a house you love. 

Kari Carson

DRE #01903828

(818) 424-5537

kari@karicarson.com

Neighborhoods Served: La Canada Flintridge, La Crescenta, Montrose, Glendale, Pasadena, Eagle Rock, Highland Park, Greater LA area

Buying a house is generally considered one of the top three most stressful events in a person’s life (behind death of a family member and loss of job), so it can easily put a strain on even the most solid partnerships. It is very common for one partner to feel that they have to move forward on a house that they don’t love in order to make their partner happy, which often results in a cancelled escrow and frustration all around. Here are some tips to avoid this scenario:

See houses together. Even if one partner has a lot more free time than the other, it is extremely important that you see houses at the same time rather than one person “weeding out” unwanted houses on behalf of the other. Seeing homes that ultimately don’t work is not a waste of time! It is actually an important part of the process because it enables you to better recognize the houses that could actually work for you. I recommend seeing the full range of properties in your price range to get a better understanding of the value in the neighborhood and to learn more about what you are both willing to compromise on. 

Agree on location. If the perfect house in your ideal location is out of your budget, you need to make the decision together to either compromise on the house, or to consider other neighborhoods. Take the time to drive together through any areas you are considering and get a feel for where you will be shopping, where your kids would be going to school, ect. If you have any concerns about safety, do research online ahead of time and drive through at different times of day.  This should all be done before you consider making an offer on a house. Come to an agreement about how long you’d like to stay in your home and whether you would be comfortable living in a second-choice area with the knowledge that you are working towards trading up in the future to a forever house in your favored location. 

Research Renovations ahead of time. I’ve been in many situations where one partner decides they want to buy a “fixer” and tries to convince the other partner that they can live in the home while doing a major renovation. If you are seriously considering this scenario, you should have a detailed discussion about what type of remodeling your budget and sanity allows for. Don’t make assumptions about the price or timeframe for completing work– make sure you fully research your options ahead of time. And keep in mind that unless you are using a construction loan, which requires very specific documentation and timelines for completing work, you cannot simply tack on an additional $40,000 to your home loan to pay for remodeling. You’ll need to have a plan for accessing funds to pay for the work after you close on your home. 

By communicating openly, exploring homes together, and agreeing on priorities ahead of time, couples can turn the stress of house hunting into a shared journey toward finding the right home.

Kari Carson

DRE #01903828

(818) 424-5537

kari@karicarson.com

Neighborhoods Served: La Canada Flintridge, La Crescenta, Montrose, Glendale, Pasadena, Eagle Rock, Highland Park, Greater LA area